Birth Reflections Service

We hope your birth was a good experience. But for some people, birth can be hard. It can leave you feeling worried, sad, or upset.

There are many reasons why birth may feel difficult:

  • it may not have gone the way you expected
  • there may have been problems during labour
  • you may still have questions or upsetting memories

Everyone feels differently, and all feelings are important.

How we can help

Birth Reflections is a service run by midwives. It gives you time and space to:

  • talk about your birth
  • understand what happened
  • ask questions
  • share how you feel

This can help make difficult memories easier to manage.

Who can use this service?

You can use this service if you:

  • had your baby at Torbay Hospital, or
  • are getting care from Torbay Maternity

Please bring your birth partner with you.

When can I come?

We suggest waiting until at least 6 weeks after your baby is born. This gives your body and mind time to recover.

After this, you can come at any time. There is no time limit. You can come:

  • months later
  • during another pregnancy or if you are planning a future pregnancy

How to book

Please fill in the Birth Reflections referral form. This helps us understand what you need and how we can support you.

Important information

  • Complaints: This is not a complaints service, but we can help you find out how to make a complaint.
  • Location: Appointments are at Torbay Hospital.
  • Hospital visits: If coming to the hospital feels difficult or upsetting, please tell us and we will try to help.

Birth Reflections referral form


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